There is no right or wrong way to mourn your loved one when they pass. If you are not sure which funeral home services in Hayward are right for your family, here are a few of the most popular options to consider:
Traditional Funeral
The traditional funeral is the most common choice for burial in Western cultures. This involves a body – usually prepared through embalming – which may or may not be viewed by loved ones before or during the service. If the body is not to be seen, this may be called a closed-casket funeral.
During a traditional funeral, speakers will remember the decedent, music may be played, hymns may be sung, and prayers or tributes may be offered – all depending on the religious and cultural traditions of the deceased and their loved ones.
Memorial Service
A traditional funeral may not be right in every circumstance. Those who wish to have a service without a body present may choose a memorial service. These are generally still somber in tone and formal in nature. They are perfect for those who choose direct burial or cremation since the body does not have to be present for the usual speeches and memorial tributes.
Celebration of Life
For those who wish to celebrate their loved ones rather than mourning, a celebration of life may be more appropriate. These are often chosen for those who plan their own funerals, or for those who die young. Regardless of why it is chosen, celebrations of life may take place during the normal window of time shortly after a death or may be celebrated weeks, months, or even years after their passing. They may also be chosen in addition to a more somber funeral or other service.
Committal or Graveside Service
A committal – sometimes referred to as a graveside service – can be like any of the previously mentioned services. During a committal, the clergyman or other speaker gives their speech at the gravesite. This is usually brief, with the tone varying based on the family’s preferences and cultural customs. After the brief speech, flowers may be placed onto the casket before it is lowered into the ground.
If you find yourself confused or needing assistance, reach out to the staff at Holy Sepulchre Cemetery & Funeral Center. They have the resources to help you and a deep understanding of exactly what you are dealing with.
